Coaching is a relationship by choice with an highly skilled professional who works with you as a personal partner. As a result of this relationship, you…

  • exceed your previous limitations continuously;
  • keep open to requests to do more than you would have done on your own;
  • set and reach better more worthwhile goals;
  • produce results more easily and quickly;
  • reenforce and sharpen desired skills so that you are the best you can be.

“People get focused and produce faster and easier because they have a coach.”

Everyone want to know how they can be better, how can they improve and be the best they can be. Coaching is the answer. Coaching is not telling people what to do; it is helping them clarify and control their life. It is helping them evaluate what they are doing now in their life in the light of their goals, dreams, values and intentions.

It gives them new choices and leads to change. Coaching helps a person go beyond the mental blocks of what they thought was possible. Coaching works as a partnership between coach and client.

It helps to clarify goals, to make them challenging and motivating, then to achieve those goals with the energy that comes from their deepest values.

Coaches are specially trained to work with people in all walks of life to help them achieve their goals, live their values and be the best they can be.

  • Consultants give advice and say: Here’s the solution.
  • (Coaches assure you follow through.)
  • Motivators do pep-talk and say: Here’s the carrot & whip.
  • (Coaches assure incentives change with you, so that your goals are really leading to your passion and what is truly you and not just a hip thing to do.)
  • Trainers instruct and say: Here’s how to do it.
  • (Coaches assure you master that knowledge. So a coach does not tell, but rather explore together with you what you can do and put in place in order to be successful)
  • Therapist focus on the past and say: Here’s why you’re doing it.
  • (Coaches focus on what’s right about you. So the focus is not on the past and the ‘why’, but rather on the future and the ‘how’ are you going to ensure that you will achieve what you set out to achieve)
  • Mentors share what they did in the same situation and say: Let me show you the ropes.
  • (Coaches might share some insights but will not advise and suggest based on past experiences. Every situation is different, so it would be foulish to believe that the coach knows what is best for the coachee.)
  • Sport Coaches say: Here’s how to beat others.
  • (Coaches assure you’re in a win/win mode.)

Coaching could be useful and powerful for . . .

  • Anybody who has a crises
  • Anybody who is not happy with his life
  • Anybody who is at a turning point of this life
  • Anybody who is caring for himself
  • Anybody who is having the time to reflect on his life and wants to take it further
  • Anybody who is currently doing personal development
  • Anybody who is not happy in his job
  • Anybody who is intending to change his career
  • Any reader/user of career portals or job sections in newspapers
  • Anybody who is looking to advance his career
  • Anybody who is looking to start an alternative career
  • Anybody who is on a sabbatical or being retrenched or wanting a career change

Individuals who engage in a coaching relationship can expect to experience fresh perspectives on personal challenges and opportunities, enhanced thinking and decision making skills, enhanced interpersonal effectiveness, and increased confidence in carrying out their chosen work and life roles. Consistent with a commitment to enhancing their personal effectiveness, they can also expect to see appreciable results in the areas of productivity, personal satisfaction with life and work, and the achievement of personally relevant goals.

Individuals will be clear about what they want from life. They will go after it with passion, because they have cleared away the obstacles that blocked them. They will have a more satisfying and happier life in every aspect. Professionally, they will be more effective and skilled at their work and get better results. Other benefits can be:

  • Increased self-awareness
  • Improved self-responsibility
  • Awareness of your talents, values and life purpose with improved integration of these into your personal and professional lives
  • Gaining fresh perspectives on your personal challenges and opportunities
  • Increased understanding of what is important to you
  • Greater knowing of your true self
  • A stronger connection with Spirit
  • Improved clarity of your own desires
  • Greater satisfaction in personal and family relationships
  • Increased business/career success
  • Finding your own answers that are true for you!

How can you determine if coaching is right for you ?

  • To determine if you could benefit from coaching, start by summarizing what you would expect to accomplish in coaching. When someone has a fairly clear idea of the desired outcome, a coaching partnership can be a useful tool for developing a strategy for how to achieve that outcome with greater ease
  • Since coaching is a partnership, also ask yourself if you find it valuable to collaborate, to have another viewpoint and to be asked to consider new perspectives.
  • Also, ask yourself if you are ready to devote the time and the energy to making real changes in your work or life.

If the answer to these questions is yes, then coaching may be a beneficial way for you to grow and develop.

What is the basic philosophy of coaching?

Here are a number of principles:

  1. All human beings dream of fulfilling themselves and they deserve the opportunity to be their best.
  2. People create their life experience and a coach can help a client to create the life that they want.
  3. Intellectual understanding is not enough. Change means taking action.
  4. There is no such thing as failure, if you do not get what you want, you find another way. Failure is just a short-term way of saying that you not succeeded – yet.
  5. Everyone already have all the resources we need or can create them. No one is helpless. The client has the answers, the coach has the questions.
  6. A coach works to increase the amount of choice in the client’s life.
  7. Coaching is an equal, synergistic partnership
  8. Everyone can get what’s wanted a lot faster and easier teaming up with a coach partner.

My Coaching:

  • encourages client self-discovery, self-awareness and self-responsibility.
  • acknowledges and celebrates the awareness of the client’s values, talents and life purpose as well as the integration of these into the client’s personal and professional life.
  • has successfully been used with business owners, creatives, non-profit professionals, teachers, teens, groups, . . . everyone who is ready for greater fulfilment and is committed.

Yes, you can afford coaching.

I work in a set of 4 (four) committed coaching sessions with payment upfront for R 3,800 incl. VAT.

This equates to R 950 per 60 minute session. You can terminate the coaching at any point and will only pay for the used coaching session.

Money back guarantee.

I believe that you should only pay for coaching that adds value to your life. I am prepared to refund you the money for a session if you feel that you did not get value-for-money (as long as you state this at the end of a session).

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